kinky . jasmines

This post is to promote the 2008 KDCA-ISCEP Concert that is happening REALLY soon.
This post will be here until May 25th.
Updates on my blog will still be done, don’t worry about it.
Just SCROLL DOWN will you?!

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Dear Pretty People,

2008 will be the KDCA-ISCEP Concert’s 4th year and we want YOU to be a part of the concert this year! This year’s concept would be one of the most interesting and unique concept ever done as it features the EVOLUTION of Sabah’s unique culture.

With that, it is our honour to present to you the 2008 KDCA-ISCEP Concert!!!

Date: May 28th 2008 (Wednesday)
Time: 7.30pm - 10.30pm (doors open at 6.30pm)
Venue: Hongkod Koisaan KDCA, Penampang (SABAH)

The main objective of this concert is to raise fund for the future students who will be representing Sabah under KDCA to South Korea for the KDCA-International Cultural Student Exchange Program (ISCEP). Thus we need YOUR help in making this year’s concert a bang and also, help us in raising the fund.

TICKETS are priced at RM10(GALLERY), RM20(DELUXE)& RM50(PREMIER).

So yeah, if you’re interested in getting your hands on the ticket, then comment this post and don’t forget to leave your EMAIL so that I could keep in touch with you personally. OR you can email me at temptedwisdom[at]gmail[dot]com and we’ll settle a meet.

Thanks!
♥ Jasmine

ATTN: Massy, Edgar, DX, Daniel, Rainer, Amy, Hanafi, Irene, Rosalind, Jack, Julian, Robby, Jacq, Ali, Nicole, Qayyum & Jollence. *wink wink* You guys better go!

DO HELP ME PROMOTE THIS CONCERT. THAT WOULD BE AWESOME! :]

I have been hanging out with a lot of people lately, but didn’t really post anything up regarding the hanging out part. Heh. Been slacking yet again. LOL. So okay, what happened in my life lately.

Last Sunday

Went for my school’s Drama Team’s (last year’s team) lunch at Pizza Hut in Centre Point. It was good to meet everyone again as I’ve missed them soo much. Ever since I graduated, I rarely meet them so yeah. There was not many of us who went for the lunch, but it was alright. At least we had fun! It was a total girls’ day out

Jacintha, Kristy & Rachel the diva.

Teacher Fiona, Myra, Abigail & Moi

Notice me and Myra’s shirt?????? It’s the same shirt! Bought it in MNG but obviously, different color. I got this for my birthday by the way and it’s one of my favourite shirt.
I ♥ Cora, Mortigou and Jessicaaa!

After that, we went hommeeee! Spent only about 2 hours in KK. Was toooo lazy to roam around. Bleh.

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Last Tuesday

Had a Yoyo session with Cora & Joshua, so that was fun! They’re fun people to hang out with and I love them to bits! We always have a good laugh over things and Joshua & I love poking fun at Cora. LOL.

L O V E

Joshua, Cora & I

Guess what I had? Almond with bubbles! Wheeeeee… I was happy and content. *grin*

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Today (Yay!)

note: The pictures are a bit dark and shaky. Was too lazy to edit them. LOL.

Went to the Jabatan Air (water department? LOL) in the morning with my mom to fix some stuff regarding duh, what else? The water! =P And something amused me like hell.

It’s a small water fountain with that pipe there. I find this amusing, but very much DISTURBING. LOL. Couldn’t help myself, I just HAD to take a picture of this. *chuckles*

So anyway, Edgar picked me up from home for the lunch in Fish&Co. Which was waaayyy fun by the way and totally filling. I couldn’t take anymore after that. Was too full. So as usual, pictures!

Edgar stole my food.

Other side of the table from my view.

Rainer, Me & Edgar camwhoring with si-taillll (style)

The group

We were about to go off, but then Rainer had to be Rainer. See, Rainer loved the desert, so he was all, “hey, why didn’t you guys finish your half of the desert?” Then, he went back to the table and had some deserts. Colin joined in too. LOL.

Went to Fotomat in center Point after that to check some cameras and Chucky’s future flash. Chucky wanted to test the flash and guess who was his subject to test on? *wink wink*

Can’t say I didn’t have fun posing. LOL.

Massy XD

Chucky. Uncle Chucky? Chuck Chuck? Chuck the IT guy?

LOL. Was just being random as usual… Okay so, updates done! Be GOOD people! ♥

So I hung out with Joshua & Cora the other day and we were in this one famous shirt/bag/jeans/shoes/earing/skateboard shop in Centre Point just near the other main door with that big City Parade name on it.

So anyway, there was this group of English tourists in the shop, a family actually. And they were searching for their kid. All of them spread out in the shop and started to call out for the boy. While I was busy searching for a potential school bag, the whole bottom row of the bags were moving and so I leaned back a bit and saw a small boy looking at me while saying, “Shhh…“.

I looked at his parent and slowly that boy went out figuring that it was finally time to go out from his hiding place. Dad got really pissed of and pulled him by the hand, leaned on to him and gave him a hard lecture.

“Peter, don’t do that anymore. Promise me to not do that anymore. Look at me when I talk to you. I’m telling you now. I am bloody angry at you. If you do that again, I’ll give you a smack in the ass, do you hear me?“

Yes, the lecture was scary, but then again, the workers in the shop, whom I assume was not familiar with the English sentence, got a bit creative in their translation. LOL.

Worker 1: Garang juga. Apa dia cakap tu?
Worker 2: Tidak tau. Tapi macam dia cakap dia mau kasih berdarah tu budak. Itulah yang saya dengar.
Worker 3: Apaaaa? Dia mau kasih berdarah tu budak? Teruk juga bapa dia tu.
Worker 1 & 2: Ya bah.

At first I thought the dad was actually gonna hurt that boy until he was all bloody, after hearing what the workers said. But then, when I actually think about what the dad said, then it came to me and I started laughing.

Dad: … I am BLOODY angry.

Hahaha… Workers… FAIL.

When I was in KL about a month back, both my friend and I went to One Utama only to pass this bikini wax salon. On their glass door pasted some designs that they offered for their clients. That was a totally interesting thing as KK didn’t have such thing. At least, none that I know of.

Being hairy down there is a total bother especially when it comes to chilling at the pool/beach. I wonder if swimmers have to trim or shave or wax theirs so that nothing comes out from that swimsuit of theirs. If you know what I mean. *wink*

So anyway, I did a little bit of research on bikini waxing and found out that there are indeed a lot of wax types. Isn’t that awesome? More choices!

TYPES OF BRAZILIAN WAX

The Brazilian Wax
A brazilian, contrary to popular use of the term, is actually not the removal of all the hair down there. The brazilian focus is on the rear (derrière) and it involves removal of all hair in the buttocks and rectal areas. The front area maintains some of the hair, usually in the shape of a triangle or an oval. When people refer to a brazilian wax, they often mean - although not correctly - removing all the hair down there. Again, just make sure that the professional who is performing the service knows exactly what you want.

The Hollywood Wax
This is the removal of all the hair in the lower region of the women’s private area - front and back/buttocks included.

The Sphinx Wax
A thin line of hair is left from the front side all the way to the buttocks.

The Thong Wax
The same thing as a brazilian wax, that is all buttocks and rectal hair removed while leaving a small triangle or oval shape around the front private area.

The Frankie B Wax
Named after low-riding ‘Frankie B’ jeans, this waxing style has a wider, much lower triangle necessary for lower, hip-hugging jean and trouser styles. The Frankie B originated in the Los Angeles salon called “Pink Cheeks”. Hollywood-celeb-waxer, Cynthia Lotson, originated this and other brazilian waxing styles.

The Playboy Wax
This brazilian wax type removes it all, including the hair on the inner lips. Some variations of the Playboy leave a small triangle at the very top.

The Tiffany Box
All hair is removed, including in the buttocks area, except the hairs that remain are a square. The remaining hairs are dyed the famous jeweler’s aquamarine color.

Other Brazilian Wax styles
Other styles include waxing hearts into the remaining hairs, as well as initials and other designs.

Source

The last two styles are pretty crazy. Can you possibly dye your pubic hair? But still, having said how crazy it is, I do honestly think that the last style, having your initials on your vaginal area is pretty sexy. Imagine a ‘J’ on mine. Can you say, Oh la la? LOL!

I can’t imagine having to actually wax mine. I mean, well, I can but the pain must be really insane. I mean, try pulling one hair, I’m sure it’s painful. Imagine having a whole bunch of them being pulled at once. Ouch much? And if you want to get rid it all, go nude as they say, you not only have to spread for your waxer, but you also have to go doggy as she will also clear up the hair near your anus a.k.a butt. So it’s from the vaginal area up to the butt area. That’s messed up man.

But hey, then you wondered how all those boys in Porn have their ‘buddies’ all clean and clear right? Do these boys shave? Well, yeah, I guess they do. But even them can’t make it through all those bumps and lumps. So what do they do to get rid it all? Easy, by doing some MALE BRAZILIAN WAXING! Oh yes.

What??? Do you really think that all those boys in Porno were born with hairless ‘buddies‘?

Don’t laugh. This may be you.

TYPES OF MALE BRAZILIAN WAX

The costs of a men’s brazilian wax usually varies between US$25 to US$50 depending on the variety of styles available as a brazilian wax.

• Bikini
  the bikini wax removes the hair from the side and top of the standard male underwear. Most of the genital hair remains as hair is not removed from the penis, scrotum or anus.
• Standard Brazilian
  this type of wax removes the hair from the side and top of the standard male underwear, scrotum, penis (including shaft and base) and anus. The genital hair around the pubic area is left.
• The Wedge
  this type of wax is the same as the standard male brazilian wax except that the genital hair around the pubic area is trimmed on the sides to give the hair around this area a narrower look. The ‘wedge’ effect gives a slimming look.
• The Hitler
  this type of wax is similar to the standard male brazilian wax and The Wedge except most of the genital hair is removed from the pubic area. The only area left from the pubic area is a strip (similar to the Landing Strip style from the female brazilian wax) akin to the famous Hitler moustache.
• Hollywood / Full Brazilian
  all hair is removed from the pubic hair, shaft and base of penis, scrotum and anus.

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Who knew Hitler too inspired the brazilian wax. Impressive ey? Oh and by the way, if you’re into personal waxing/shaving, this blog is waaayyy interesting.

So… Anyone up for some waxing?

√ ♥ ψ <– I wonder if they can do these patterns too. Cool eh?

I read a very powerful post on a featured post in Xanga just now and that totally made me think about certain things. The post was long, and yet, it received about 375 comments which intrigued me into reading the post. It was a post about a nurse who works in the ultrasound room having to meet fathers hoping to have sons instead of daughters.

You can read her post here.

I suppose most dads, if not all, hoped to have a son rather than a daughter just so that he can do those father-son activity that he had done with his own dad in the past. Or maybe he just wanted to have a father-son relationship, a relationship that he never had with his own dad.

Still, I doubt any father who always wanted a son having to regret actually having a daughter in the end. She (the writer) questions her own dad on whether he was disappointed to have her (a daughter). Though she had two brothers before her, but still, she questioned whether her dad always wanted another son and was disappointed to find that she in fact was a girl.

The post itself didn’t really hit me hard; it is the comments that gave such a big impact on me. In fact, I wouldn’t be talking about her post if it wasn’t for the comments that she got. I went through her comments and saw DADS actually coming in and telling her how proud they are of their (the dads’) own daughters.

+ I’m the father of two daughters (and a son) and I couldn’t be prouder of my girls. There are some of us out there. Please don’t give up hope.

+ As the proud parent of a brilliant 19-month old daughter, I can see how hard that would be. My wife and I always wanted one of each sex, and I was hoping to have a little boy first (you know, to watch out for her when she gets to be a teenager, etc., and in all fairness she wanted a little girl more than a boy). But when I found out it was a little girl I couldn’t wait to meet her, even more so than before. There’s something about the bond between a father and daughter that transcends everything else. I can’t imagine what my life would be like without my little girl.

+ For what it’s worth, I always wanted a daughter.

The comments are the ones that hit me hard and it did almost made me all teary.

In some cultures, I suppose, boys are looked as important genders. They are thought to carry on the family name, take care of the family once he’s all big and would be much more successful as compared to girls. My grandma love boys more than girls. She treasured her grandsons and sons the most and would always take their side if any fault was done. It annoys me much.

It’s always, “he’s only being a boy/male…“. Heh… Sometimes I questioned her. “I thought you told me that us women have to be strong, and yet you’re there, covering him when it’s clear enough that it was his fault and not hers.” Though of course, I never did asked her that directly, it just sometimes came in my head and made me wondered.

Sometimes I feel that there is a lot of contradictions being done with my grandma. Heh…